kalyani

kalyani is my husband's aaya'.When I started creating these blogs she asked me about it.Most interestingly and curiously she asked me ---Mole why can't you write about me? You always say you love me, if it is true write a story about me.
Yes I love my Kallu very much.She joined my husband's family at her 7th year as her mother died due to small pox and his father married another woman.There was nobody to look after kallu.My husband VINU chettan's father's mother declared that I am going to look after Kallyani hereafter.Have anybody got any objection?Vinu ettan's father said that it will not be good.Then ammumma said ,then you can live seperate from this Tharavad .As you have got immense wealth you can .There ended the objections of the whole family.Till ammumma died Kallu was her companion.
Vinuettan's ammumma sent Kallu to school along with her 4 sons and 2 daughters.
But Kallu was very reluctant to continue after passing tenth.At the age of 18 ammumma asked Gopalan ,their Karyasthan to marry her. Kallu was very sad to leave ammumma.After 10 days of her marriage she returned to ammumma .Even though everybody in the family tried their best Kallu never married again.After ammumma died she went along with Vinuettan's amma.After her death she came to my house and for the last 15 years she has been residing with us serving us.Eventhough my sisters-in -law tried to take her to their houses she never spent a night with them.Kallu will be with me till her last breath.SHE IS MY AMMA IN ALL SENSE.

KINDNESS

I am not sure whether I really meant to write about kindnes.I think better word is MERCY .Now I have full of doubts.While sitting for writing I even forget the spelling of words.May be anxiety of a SSLC holder.I hope you will parden my faults.O.K?As fragrance to gold every good person must have mercy in his heart.You may be rich, aristocratic,handsome or having hundreds of qualities.But without mercy you are nothing.Try to be merciful to your parents by condidering them,give ears to their words, to your children by trying to understand their worries ,to your associates while interacting with them, to your subordinates and servants in their sad moments.
You will be the most lovely person if you nurture mercy in your heart

advocasy

Being a person having disability to talk I often dream of becoming an advocate.You see a dumb can do any work except this.I have read in a book that there are even doctors and engineers and computer experts and so many professionals having this weakness. Never I came across an incident in which an advocate shined as such.That is why I like to be an advocate.According to my best friend the noblest profession is advocasy.In that profession one pleads for other's cause.An advocate take much pains to reach the goals of others.When the real affected persons sleep well after entrusting an advocate his case till the disposal of the case advocate may not be able to sleep.In all other walks of life one has to suffer one's own pains.
I do concede and agree that there are some advocates who will do harm to their clients after receiving the briefs.But I think and believe that it happens because of the inability to contest.Even such persons are working for others' cause as their own.of course there will be persons with crookedness as in other professions.But still I too consider this profession as the most attractive and noble.I believe in life after death.In my next life I will definitely become an advocate.

friendship

A real friend is the medicine of life.As said by someone great, a friend in need is a friend indeed.In my opinion we must learn the lessons to maiintain a good friendship.Don't treat your friend as a means to achieve your goals. Treat him a person himself.You can trust him more than aybody else.You can open your innate heart and feelings to him.you can bestow infinite faith in him.As far as I am concerned I place my best friend next to GOD.I can be myself in every sense to him without any doubt.I shower utmost faith and trust him .I can even quarrel with him.I can cry without shame.I can apologise him .I consider him as an end in himself rather than a means to my needs.I get happiness and contentment and solace in his presence.If you ask me what is my greatest achievement in this life of mine , I will undoubtedly and unequivocally say that it is my best friend.I can say the whole world that I have never seen such a pure heart than his ever in my life.Without him I will be abig zero

to manu and siva

Brothers ,
Hope you are satisfied in reading my lines.How can I sit simply without conveying my thoughts , as at the receiving end you people are eagerly waiting to read my silly things.
Thanks once again .In my next blogs I will write about my serious thoughts regarding life , religion, nature , law and order of our country , about music, about cinema , about Politics ,customs etc etc
wish you a happy, prosperous , co-operative , peaceful and lovely life.Convey my regards to your near and dear ones,if you have any doubt regarding any laws prevailing under Indian Penal Code or NI Act ask me.I am learning those subjects.OOMAKKUYIL

transformation

whether for good or for bad the green lands of Keralam gave way for concrete ones .One of the specialities of Keralites is the liking to do what our neighbour do.If our next door person purchase a car we will also think about purchasing one for no use.There will be one covered in car porch.If our neighbour construct a two-storeyed building we will not sleep till we construct one like it.For all this we will be compelled to approach SABARINATHS and like persons or blade mafia.Please try to understand our means and needs.And try to be satisfied in what we have with our means.Then only we can successfully thwart persons like Sabarinaths.
One more request is that avoid the habit of peeping into the lives of others .Avoid commenting on the weakness of others.be good models than critics

gratitude

I would like to express my sincere and heartfelt thanks to all who commented on my Malayalam blogs.First of all I thank the lovely heart who asked me to write about Himalaya Journey.I will soon write about my wonderful experiences.Then I thank my brothers who advised me not to love another's husband.Thanks for permitting me to dream.My dear brother loving for the sake of LOVE ALONE IS NOT A SIN>I love you all because you all lend your eyes and ears and thoughts to this poor silent singer.I will reply to each and every one at a later stage.Please comment soon .Your words are the real encouragement to me.How is my Malayalam ?should I write in Malayalam? or in english?Thank you all once again.With love and regards and prayers,yours only OOMAKKUYIL

craze for gold

I had to attend some marriages last month.Beautiful girls wearing gold ornaments all over their bodies and exhibit like models of jewlleries.I have travelled all over India and attended marriages in almost all states of India.Never I came across the show off and exhibition of gold ornaments in marriage functins except in Kerala ,the most educated state.I visualise the predicament of poor parents who are constrained to compete with others.In my opinion there must be some awareness programes among women.I wonder how these educated girls of this beautiful state become puppets in the hands of others? Some will argue that gold is an asset which can be utilised for so many purposes in future lives of couple.But still the girls of Kerala should think twice whether they run after the gold merchants.

pains

nowadays I feel so sorry about the matters going around us.Sometimes I think that Our God's own country has once again become a lunatic asylum as once Swami Vivekananda lamented.We Malayalis forget our culture and civilisation and running behind out dated fashions of western countries.Kerala has changed to a pety godown of unwanted products of other places.
The change of dressing ,food habits .the behavioural patterns and every aspects of day to day life of Malayalis have undergone tremendous changes .Those changes do no good to us.Of course I too support every change for a good cause, like education , progress in Science and Technology etc.But the changes seen around us create anxious fears in me about the future of our little beautiful GREENLAND.

നിയോഗം

മനു,
നീ എന്തിന് എന്നെ വിട്ടു പോയി?ഒരു ഭീരുവിനെപ്പോലെ ഏത് മാളത്തില്‍ ഒളിച്ചു നീ?സ്നേഹം ധീരന്മാര്‍ക്കുല്ലതട .ഒരിക്കല്‍ മരിക്കണം .ഈ ജന്മം നീ ഇങ്ങനെ ആയിരിക്കും. അടുത്ത ജന്മം നമുക്കൊത് കഴിയാം .ഇനി നാം കാണില്ല ഇനി ഞാന്‍ കഥകള്‍ എഴുതില്ല , പട്ടു പാടില്ല .നിനക്കു വേണ്ടാത്ത ഒന്നും എനിക്ക് വയ്യ ,

സ്വപ്നം

കിനാവ് കാണാത്ത പെണ്ണായിരുന്നു ഞാന്‍ .എന്നെ അത് കാണാന്‍ പഠിപ്പിച്ചത്
എന്റെ മാത്രം പാവം ചെക്കന്‍ ആയിരുന്നു.അവന്‍ എല്ലാം ഉണ്ട് .പക്ഷെ ഒന്നും ഇല്ല
വീട് അവനൊരു ജയില്‍ ആയിരുന്നു .അവന്‍ ചിരിക്കാന്‍ , കരയാന്‍ ,എല്ലാം പറയാന്‍
തുടങ്ങിയത് എന്നെ സ്നേഹിച്ചു തുടങ്ങിയപ്പോള്‍ ആയിരുന്നു .ഇന്നും അവന്‍ തടവറയില്‍ തന്നെയാണ്.അവന്റെ ഭാര്യയുടെയും മക്കളുടെയും തടവറയില്‍ .എന്നെ ഒന്നു കാണാന്‍ കൊതിച്ചു മുറിവേറ്റ കളിനെക്കള്‍ വേദന നിറഞ്ഞ മനസുമായി അവന്‍ കരയാതെ
കരഞ്ഞു ദിനരാത്രങ്ങള്‍ തള്ളി നീക്കുന്നു. അവന്റെ പണം മാത്രം മോഹിച്ചു അവന് കാവല്‍ കിടക്കുന്ന അവന്റെ നരകം കാക്കുന്ന കാവല്‍ക്കാരി അവന് ഒരിത്തിരി സ്വാതന്ത്ര്യം കൊടുക്ക്‌ .പാവം അവന്‍ സ്വപ്നം കാണട്ടെ